BEFORE YOU BEGIN
A Letter to Yourself
Dear Future Me,
Write to the person you will be on Day 90. Tell them why you are here. What hurts.
What you hope for. What you are afraid will not change. Seal it. Do not read it until you reach the end.
Book on Amazon ↗Written by K.A. Amare, RNBook live on AmazonASIN B0HG3LNCF4Calm is a body skill.
Calm is a body skill.
Practice it.
A quiet, 90-day system for noticing what state you are in, choosing a brief body-first practice, and learning from your own before-and-after record.
About three minutes for a daily check-in · no subscription · not a substitute for professional care
The Sanctuary Reset Kit
Six PDFs · direct download
Official covers · actual kit files
Ninety seconds
Why your body won’t calm down
on command.
The idea behind both books, in one sitting · sound on
The Sanctuary Journey
A painted path through the 90 days.
The letter · Your baseline · The daily rhythm · Day 66 · Day 91
DAY 0
Your Baseline
Record where you are right now — before anything changes. You will fill out this same snapshot on Day 90.
SLEEP · ANXIETY · RECOVERY · BODY · MOOD
One thing you want to be different in 90 days.
DAY 1 · AWARENESS · PHASE 1
Before. One reset. After.
A few minutes. One honest snapshot.
⛅ BEFORE → ↻ THE RESET → ☀ AFTER
DAY 66 · INTEGRATION · PHASE 3
The journal marks
a threshold.
Around Day 66, practice starts to feel less like effort and more like a setting. The journal marks the threshold.
Habit framing from a widely cited study — not a promised result.
DAY 91
Open Your Letter
Go back to the letter you wrote on Day 0. Read it slowly. Notice the distance between that person and who is reading this now.
The Sanctuary Manual series
Read the why.
Practice the how.
Two books that work on each other. One teaches you the why — 18 techniques and the plain-English reason each one works. The other gives you a 90-day place to practice them and write down what your body did.
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The Book — paperback & Kindle on Amazon
Somatic Exercises for Nervous System Regulation holds the body-first framework and 18 resets in one book you can read in your own order.
View the manual on Amazon ↗
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The Practice — The Sanctuary Reset Kit · $29
The 90-day journal, 7-day starter, and three reference cards—six PDFs for print or type-in use.
Two different things: the Reset Kit is six PDFs you download and either print or type into. The paperbacks are printed books, sold on Amazon.
Everything of ours that is on Amazon
- Somatic Exercises for Nervous System RegulationPaperback · $16.99 · ASIN B0HG3LNCF4
- The same book on KindleKindle edition · $9.99 · ASIN B0HGG59X23
- The 90-Day Rhythm JournalPaperback · $16.99 · ASIN B0HGNJVHW5
The journal’s print edition is its own book on Amazon. The Reset Kit contains the same journal as PDFs you print or type into — not the bound paperback.
Who this helps
When “just relax” lands like an insult.
The same advice does not work on every kind of bad day. Wired needs one thing, flat needs another, and overwhelmed needs the shortest thing you have. So the first move is never a technique — it is naming which one you are in.
Exhausted and wide awake.
The body is still running the shift long after the shift ended. Most people meet this one at 3 AM, which is why the book starts here.
Nothing hurts. Nothing lands.
Not sadness exactly — the couch collapse that never turns into rest. It needs a different move than wired does, and the page beside this shows why.
Too much, too fast.
Chest tight, thinking gone, something due in an hour. The practices for this state are the shortest in the book on purpose.
The 90-day structure
Three minutes, twice a day.
Ninety days that hold them.
Morning and evening, the same short check-in: where you are, one practice, what changed. Short enough to keep on a bad night, and after ninety days it is a record of your own body that nobody had to guess at.
Awareness
Notice your state without turning the page into another performance review.
Practice
Try brief practices and record what feels useful, neutral, or unhelpful.
Integration
Compare your own record. Keep what fits and name where more support is needed.
Day 66
The journal marks
a threshold.
Two thirds of the way through, the journal stops and gives you a page for it — a place to read back the sixty-five days behind you before you go on.
Inside the books
More than one kind
of useful page.
From inside Somatic Exercises for Nervous System Regulation and the 90-Day Rhythm Journal — technique pages, anatomy diagrams, and the daily spreads.
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Glimmers + the Vagal Pre-Load
How to catch the small moments a body reads as safe, and a wind-down sequence for the last hour before sleep.
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The Healing in Your Hands
Where to put your own hands, and how steady touch tells an alarmed body it is not under attack.
Rendered from the shipped interior · p6503
The Breath That Quiets the Storm
The physiological sigh in three steps, with the exact counts — the one practice most people can do on the first read.
Rendered from the shipped interior · p5004
Your Reset Toolkit
Every practice in one place, so at 3 AM you are choosing from a list instead of trying to remember.
Rendered from the shipped journal interior · p5The complete digital practice set
The Sanctuary
Reset Kit
What’s inside · six PDFs
One on-ramp. One container. Three cards that stay close.
- 01The 90-Day Rhythm Journal
Print PDF · 217 pages. The container: Day 0 letter → daily Before/Reset/After → 13 weekly reviews → Day 66 → Day 91.
- 02The same journal as a type-in PDF
785 fillable fields for the same complete 90-day structure.
- 03The 7-Day Rhythm Starter
12 pages. The on-ramp: one guided week that teaches the notice → practice → record loop.
- 04What State Am I In?
One-page quick reference for naming the state without grading it.
- 05The Three-Minute Reset
One-page quick reference for choosing a brief practice in the moment.
- 06Post-Shift Decompression
One-page quick reference for the locker, fridge, car, or wherever work follows you.
Start with the 7 days. Live in the 90. Keep the cards where the moments happen.
$29
Six PDFs, sold as one bundle.
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Not included: the printed books. These are six PDFs; the paperback and Kindle editions are sold on Amazon.
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Good questions. Honest answers.
01What exactly is included?+
Six PDFs: the 217-page 90-Day Rhythm Journal in print-friendly and type-in editions, a 12-page 7-Day Rhythm Starter Workbook, and three quick-reference cards. The Amazon book is a separate purchase and is not inside this bundle.
02Do I need the Amazon book first?+
No. The bundle can stand on its own as an educational practice structure. The book goes deeper into the author’s body-first framework and remains available only through Amazon.
03Will the fillable journal work everywhere?+
It uses standard PDF form fields. It has been verified as an AcroForm PDF, but support varies by reader; Adobe Acrobat Reader is the safest free option. The print-friendly edition is included as a fallback.
04Is a specific outcome promised?+
No. The journal organizes self-observation and practice; it does not promise symptom change, a new baseline, or a particular result by Day 90.
05How does delivery work?+
After payment is verified, the success page and receipt email provide a signed download link. It expires after 72 hours; email us for a fresh one. Refunded orders lose download access.
06Can I get a refund?+
These are instant digital downloads, so there is no automatic money-back guarantee. But if something is genuinely wrong, or the kit is not what you expected, email support with your reason. We read every note, and where the reason is reasonable, a refund will be considered. Refunded orders lose download access.
07When should I choose professional care instead?+
Whenever distress is persistent, worsening, unsafe, or interfering with daily life. This material can sit beside qualified care; it does not replace it. In a US crisis, call or text 988.